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Monday, April 18, 2016

A Mother's Disability and her Daughter's Love

So. B. It by Sarah Weeks


                I will start this review by saying this book is incredible, and a real tear-jerker, but as this blog does not post spoilers, I won’t tell you why. 12 year old main character Heidi lives with her mother, who has is mentally disabled. Because of her mother’s disability, Heidi knows very little about her mother’s past. What she does know however, is that their neighbor Bernadette looks after Heidi and her mother. Heidi’s mother has a limited vocabulary, calling herself So. B. It, hence the title of the book. In order to find more about her mother, Heidi embarks on a journey to discover her mother’s past, against the will of Bernadette. While on her journey Heidi learns what she set out for, but more importantly learns about herself.


                I have included this novel because while the child does not possess a disability, I still believe her mother’s disability plays a large role in her upbringing and the character she becomes at the end of the story. I think often times it may be easy to forget that parents may have disabilities too, and this novel is the perfect example of taking yet another angle when looking at disabilities in children’s literature. I believe this book does a wonderful job of portraying the mother as someone who is full of compassion and love, who has a personality and a history beyond her disability. As Heidi uncovers her mother’s history she learns much about herself. She learns to appreciate what she doesn’t know, and accept what she cannot change. The growth Heidi experiences throughout the novel would not have been the same had her worldview not been shaped by her mother having a disability. I believe this book is appropriate for readers of all ages, and easy to relate to for every reader as well. Viewing disability through the eyes of a loved one of the person who is disabled gives an enlightening perspective to the novel. This book will make any reader appreciative of what they have, and thankful for their family and loved ones.

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